Monday, December 21, 2009

Is every guy like T. Woods?

The Tiger Saga in a Real World.

With the array of famous cheating husbands and boyfriends, can make a real life gal wonder if all guys are in fact... cheaters? I'm not just talking about the most current unfaithful here. Ahem.. Tiger, or other sleazy athletes. What about the real men in our lives? Are they all dogs? A lot of guys may beg to differ instead posing a question such as: aren't all women hoes?, hence Tiger's trail of mistresses. To answer that, I may conclude that yes, these women were merely money hungry bimbos. However, anyone with any logical sense would agree that Tiger was at fault here. Enough about Tiger though, who cares, what about REAL live men. With all this cheating, it can make almost non-existent trust issues become major issues with spouses and boyfriends, or worse become "man-bashers" for life.

During the Pleistocene Age, a debaucher would be killed by his partner's relatives if caught of cheating. If only this type of incentive remained true today, it may end many adulterers.. or not!Why should men have needed this type of ultimatum in order to remain faithful??

Here lies the question, unlike women, men are often said to be able to "compartmentalize" their endeavours. Meaning, this is the woman I love, and this is the tramp I hooked up with at the hotel. So, does this make it okay in their minds for men to cheat in their minds because they feel, "Oh, she's just a one-night-stand, there are no feelings involved." I suppose those same men never thought about the feelings of their wives and girlfriends. And if these same cheating guys ever thought that no one would find out, think again. From my understanding, the feelings of guilt of a cheater remains no matter if their partners find out or not.

So what should we do as women? First, we should choose our significant others smartly. And remember if something seems weird, it may very well be. However, until you have proof, you have to have trust. But remember if you are in fact dealing with a cheater, "If he's fished in another pond before, chances are, he'll get his rod out again." A quote I strongly believe in