Understated and Modestness a thing of the past?

I often find myself wondering why so many woman feel the need to flaunt themselves. Since when did modest dress and understated sexiness become so passe? Being understated doesn't mean dressing as a nun, but having a little self respect.
Tip: No man who is looking for a meaningful relationship wants a woman who dresses as though she just got off work shaking it for the Benjamin's. Would you?? A good guy wants to date someone who has self respect and doesn't feel the need to put themselves on display for every guy in the room.

Ever heard the saying: save something for the imagination? Sure dressing in scantily-clad clothing will attract men, you better believe it--but what kind of man? Who wants a guy who oogled over you at the bar because you had on a dress that looked as though you borrowed it from your 15-year-old sister? More importantly, you shouldn't feel as though you have to dress
in this fashion in order to attract guys. Having your own style and sense of fashion will attract the kind of man you want. Being strong and secure in yourself is what guys look for in women they wish to pursue. Remember: you are an intelligent, intriguingly, and beautiful woman who can attract a man who sees these things in you. And if not, he surely doesn't deserve you.