What's attractive? We all ask ourselves this maybe daily. I know I do, whenever I see a cute guy, I often find myself wondering why do I find him appealing? Guys and girls a like sometimes have a type, but what makes you fall for someone?
For most people the term "love at first sight" is way off base. Of course we may oogle over a favorite celebs like Patrick Demsey or Angie, but their is more to it than what meets the eye.
Confidence, poise, a sense of humor, being laid-back are all attractive. However different people find different traits attractive as we all know. Maybe that so called "nerd" at the coffee shop with the wide rimmed glasses isn't your so called "type", but hey, give him a chance!
I get so sick of the term "he's too nice". Trust me in a relationship, you want niceness along with of course mystery (as described in a previous blog).
Of course you don't want to settle for a nice guy that you aren't compatible with, but give niceness a chance. After all, that book savy, glasses wearing, coffee-shop goer may end up to be Mr. Wonderful.
2 comments:
I agree with that blog you blogged. Although, from the guys standpoint, it's not as heart warming and sweet. Being a guy, I usually go for the visually stimulating girls first, and if I get lucky (not meaning bow chicka bow wow), they will also have a personality that is one that I am compatible with.
It's not fair for some girls, but that's how God created guys. There's always someone out there for everyone.
I look for personality first. If our personalities clash and we seem to not get along, looks won't even matter to me. Personality says a lot about a person and even if I don't find myself physically attracted at first, that person's personality can totally change my mind.
After I scope out personalities, then it's on to the looks.
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