Guys--How to spot the girl player

how to tell if she's a little on the promiscuous side..

Just as there are players, there are also a lot of these women out there. Yikes, go to a club on a Friday night, you'll see one after the other. And yes-- that's probably one of the first signs she may be on that list. If the girl is always out, chatting it up with different guys, being extremely flirty, then my guess is she just might be a bit promiscuous. However, don't get me wrong there are girls who go out, and have fun with friends, I'm one of them, but believe I'm not going to be 1-dancing "all up on" some dude I don't know. 2-Giving my number to every guy that asks for it (this is where the fake number scenario comes into play) Ladies who are on the loose side, will do all of the above.

Secondly, she knows too many guys, just like the player this girl has guy friends and a ton of them. Yes, some girls have guy friends, but they don't flirt with them. Promiscuous girls flirt with all guys. Promiscuous girls are also very insecure and love attention from the opposite sex.

Another thing about promiscuous women, is that they are very open about sex. I'm not saying she has be to a total prude. But look guys, if she's a good girl, she's not going to be talking about sex with you right off the bat--no way in hell, especially if the two of you have never had relations before. The good girl will definitely be a "lady in the streets."

Next, she like the player has numerous calls which she sends to voicemail or even better she has a passcode on her phone. She's the only person who looks at your phone, who keeps a passcode on it? Unless she works for the CIA--why does she need a secret code? My guess- she has a fear you will see it, and see all the texts/ phone calls from numerous men.

So, now your semi-dating the girl. Another possible way to tell if she's promiscuous is, She won’t share her “Magic Number” (how many people she's been with). Face it, if your into the girl, and you two are becoming serious, she would probably tell you. If she hasn't slept with many people she will be proud of it--and in most cases want to share. "Hey, yes I've slept with 3 guys", but the promiscuous girl will tell you that it's personal and she would rather not say. And yes, it is personal, but I'll repeat what I said before, numbers are low, she will tell.

Finally, listen to your buddies, this is a big one. And when I say buddy, I mean a really good friend. Your close buddy is going to have your best interest at heart, trust his basic instincts if he tells you your girl seems promiscuous.